Together · 20 min · For caregivers
Protecting a real lunch break
Twenty minutes in the working day that are not for work and not for caring, but for you.
Working caregivers often spend their breaks on care admin: calls to the pharmacy, messages to family, booking appointments. All of it needs doing. But a working day with no real rest in it is hard to keep up for long.
The steps
Four small steps,in your own time.
Choose a break time and put it in your calendar as a fixed appointment.
Decide in advance which days are care-admin days and which are rest days. Aim for at least two rest days a week.
On rest days, leave your desk or work area. Eat something you enjoy, step outside, walk, read, sit somewhere with a view.
On care-admin days, batch everything into the break, using a list made earlier, so it does not leak into the rest of your day.
The reason
Why it helps
Short, real breaks help people stay focused and steady through the afternoon. Separating rest days from admin days means both get done without everything blurring. Leaving the place where you work helps the mind treat the break as a break.
A gentle variation
If you work in a job without set breaks, such as on a shift or out on the road, take a few minutes in your vehicle or a quiet corner, with something to eat and no phone. Even five minutes counts.
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Try itwith someone.
Invite a colleague to take a walking break with you once a week. Or arrange to call a friend at lunchtime for a chat that is not about care.
Try it today
Today, block twenty minutes in your calendar for a break that is not for work or care, and leave your work area for it.
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